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As we enter this second decade of the 21st century, we face the facts of lives lived in a struggling economy under the constant shadow of terrorism in a world where many nations are engaged in war. It is hard to keep on trying, and it is difficult to have a positive view of the world and a positive attitude about our personal lives.
I work at not surrendering to negativity. I think of how I can help myself, and what story I could tell you that might give a glimmer of light in a dark world.
Others think as I think. CNN is recognizing some unsung heroes, nominated and voted upon by the internet public as individuals who are making a difference in their immediate world. Until this Unsung Heroes Project began, we would never have the opportunity to know the individuals involved. They would quietly and anonymously go on with their generous acts. These unsung heroes are good role models for us all. We can find people who are in better and in worse circumstances than ourselves. What is important is to learn from one another. It is beneficial to know about individuals who Think They Can Achieve their goals and who make a difference in the quality of life of others.
In the U.S., there is a very popular children's story, The Little Red Engine That Could. You may have read this story or have had someone read it to you. You might have forgotten this popular story. I have read the story to my children and others in my reading specialist career. As many children's stories do, the story is applicable to the adult world. I would recommend your re-reading this story, or reading it for the first time - for yourself. It is found in most public libraries and bookstores. If you are in a bookstore, you can read it in the bookstore. It is a quck read with a long impact on the psyche. You might like to share this story. Pass it on to a child, because children are always open to learning from stories. You could tell the story as well as read it. Pass it on to an adult, because adults need to be reminded of the benefits of storytelling - their stories and other people's stories.
The plot of The Little Red Engine That Could goes like this. There is a small, red train engine that has to go up a steep, steep hill. The little engine wonders, if he can make it up the steep incline. He keeps himself going by repeating the phrase, "I think I can. I think I can. I think I can. I can" Because he believes in his abilities, he does make it up the incline - he conquers the hill. This story could be a parable for all of us. We need to believe that we have the capacity to accomplish what needs to be done. That is not so easy in 2010. It takes constant 'self-talk" based on what we believe about ourselves. This belief in our personal capability is called SELF EFFICACY.
Self efficacy is quite different from self-confidence. Don't confuse the two.
Self-efficacy is the internal belief system that we are capable of achieving our goals and objectives.
I work at not surrendering to negativity. I think of how I can help myself, and what story I could tell you that might give a glimmer of light in a dark world.
Others think as I think. CNN is recognizing some unsung heroes, nominated and voted upon by the internet public as individuals who are making a difference in their immediate world. Until this Unsung Heroes Project began, we would never have the opportunity to know the individuals involved. They would quietly and anonymously go on with their generous acts. These unsung heroes are good role models for us all. We can find people who are in better and in worse circumstances than ourselves. What is important is to learn from one another. It is beneficial to know about individuals who Think They Can Achieve their goals and who make a difference in the quality of life of others.
In the U.S., there is a very popular children's story, The Little Red Engine That Could. You may have read this story or have had someone read it to you. You might have forgotten this popular story. I have read the story to my children and others in my reading specialist career. As many children's stories do, the story is applicable to the adult world. I would recommend your re-reading this story, or reading it for the first time - for yourself. It is found in most public libraries and bookstores. If you are in a bookstore, you can read it in the bookstore. It is a quck read with a long impact on the psyche. You might like to share this story. Pass it on to a child, because children are always open to learning from stories. You could tell the story as well as read it. Pass it on to an adult, because adults need to be reminded of the benefits of storytelling - their stories and other people's stories.
The plot of The Little Red Engine That Could goes like this. There is a small, red train engine that has to go up a steep, steep hill. The little engine wonders, if he can make it up the steep incline. He keeps himself going by repeating the phrase, "I think I can. I think I can. I think I can. I can" Because he believes in his abilities, he does make it up the incline - he conquers the hill. This story could be a parable for all of us. We need to believe that we have the capacity to accomplish what needs to be done. That is not so easy in 2010. It takes constant 'self-talk" based on what we believe about ourselves. This belief in our personal capability is called SELF EFFICACY.
Self efficacy is quite different from self-confidence. Don't confuse the two.
Self-efficacy is the internal belief system that we are capable of achieving our goals and objectives.
Self-confidence is the feeling we have about ourselves as the result of the messages the external world, people, and organizations, gives us. The optimal situation is for an individual to have both self-efficacy and self-confidence but in reality that does not always happen. A person who has been laid off of her/his job and has been actively looking for a job for two years could have a basis for losing self-confidence after many job interviews that were unsuccessful. Some people who share this experience can handle "interview trauma" better than some others because they have a strong sense of self-efficacy. We have all heard the adage, "Nothing succeeds like success." A person who can experience success in some area of her/his life is more likely to have self-efficacy.
In these hard times, belief in one's capabilities is essential. It is an avenue to personal empowerment. Empowerment does not always imply riches or a high standard of living. For me, empowerment means I have the right to make my own decisions and the responsibility to live with the outcomes of my decisions. I live in a democracy and I can determine my attitude towards life's pluses and minuses.
What stories can you tell to help yourself and/or some one else to believe that what needs to be done can be done?
I frequently quote Cesar Chavez' statement, Si, su puede! Yes, it can be done! I don't know, if Cesar ever heard or read the story of the Little Red Engine That Could. Cesar is just one example of a person who believed he could make a difference -- and he did. Just ask anyone in the United Farmworkers of America.
What are your stories? How do you develop your self-efficacy?
Mantras (chants) can make a difference. Echo the Little Red Engine and say to yourself, "I think I can. I think I can. I can....
How powerful are you feeling? What are You Doing About your personal empowerment?
Dr. CW